Well I learned it the hard way cause I was only four and my little brother was two years old and are dad went to jail and our mom IDK really so we were alone on an airplane I'm afraid of planes cause it was during a Storm  and we were in an adoption agency and we got adopted into a white mans house no offense sorry but I'm now 11 years old   and meh brother is 10 years old and were kinda afraid of when we grow up life will start to turn on us that the hard part cause I got teased about meh hair got called a boy cause of it and cause I didn't have a mom  and I will demolish you if I hear that u r being bulled or u r bullying someone so stop it hurts meh to know it's still happening around the world >>> .